From: http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2012/08/6065 Public Discourse: Ethics, Law and the Common Good http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com view article in original form Growing Up With Two Moms: The Untold Children’s View by Robert Oscar Lopez August 6, 2012 The children of same-sex couples have a tough road ahead of them—I know, because I have been there. The last thing we should do is make them feel guilty if the strain gets to them and they feel strange. Between 1973 and 1990, when my beloved mother passed away, she and her female romantic partner raised me. They had separate houses but spent nearly all their weekends together, with me, in a trailer tucked discreetly in an RV park 50 minutes away from the town where we lived. As the youngest of my mother’s biological children, I was the only child who experienced childhood without my father being around. After my mother’s partner’s children had left for college, she moved into our house in town. I li...